I am a bit confused and would like some clarification.
I have a separate DAC and Amp that are connected together via XLR that output to XLR balanced headphones.
I want to connect a pair of active speakers via my Amps pre out.
My question is. Do I need to use single ended connections from my DAC to Amp then use the SE pre out or can I just keep the balanced connections and use the SE pre out to my active speakers?
probably not, but it depends on the amp.
The amp can just drop half the signal for a pre-out because it has a separate common ground, you can’t do that on a 4pin XLR headphone cable because it doesn’t carry ground.
If it’s an expensive amp it might do the conversion from balanced to SE differently/better, but most will output SE from a balanced in.
If it has a balanced in and RCA pre out, and they are active when using the balanced in you should be fine.
You can make a safe adapter from 3Pin XLR to RCA, BUT every commercial cable I have ever seen like this is wired in such a way it will short out the amp. I think @ericg used such an adapter on the balanced out of his Bifrost2, but he had to modify the cable before use.
The bottom one should work fine, unless the amp prevents it (and it’s trivial to implement for the amp).
Trying it won’t hurt anything.
In fact I’m pretty sure I’ve used an original Jot in a similar configuration (feeding monoblocks) FWIW.
It’d be pretty irresponsible of an amp manufacturer to allow you to hurt the amp just by plugging something it’s intended to be connected to into it.
The BF2 manual specifically says not to use an adapter like the on Eric used above, because it can hurt it, because generally those adapters are designed to be used in the opposite direction where the input is RCA, and they need to be modified to be safe the other way around.