Thatās pretty epic that you posted that.
Friends ( I have few ) since the term is light and is without meaning for many, the word āfriendsā I mean.
This hobby is just a microcosm of the world at large.
Watch a video of a (seemingly) stable rational person give a thoughtful opinion on gear, and then read the twitter rants and passive aggressive stuff from the same dude.
Would you be friends with a person who cheated on his girlfriend or wife?
Why?
How can you expect anymore honesty than the person they sleep with and share their dreams with?
So they will lie if needed, it is just a matter of when. When it suits them.
(Red Flag)
I cut them outta my life.
Ya know, the Old Italians used to punish and sometimes kill the members who broke their vows to their spouse.
Why?
Because an angry woman with lots of info is a dangerous thing.
Because that guy broke an oath under God. At an event they likely attended.
You lie to your womanā¦you can lie to the Family/Outfit.
(Red Flag)
Ancient bit of Math/correlating based on historical data gathered by all human tribes over time.
WTF is this ramble about??
Your words are almost exactly the ones I have told many over the course of my life about who people really are.
It is simple
It makes sense
The listener should get it.
āWhat you do or donāt do, when no one is looking, and will never know, is who you areā
Get it?
That is why I hate DM. Always spirals into a person showing their fucked up brokeness and once i know I canāt forget
I am here to use my ears and library to give my opinion on audio gear.
Iām not anyones friend. That means jack shit to me.
I look over folks shoulder (not eye contact) as they pass unless they gazeā¦then i lock on em till they look away or big drama is about to fall on them right there.
People see the eyes and avert and avoid.
Ever see a seemingly normal dude and lock eyes and feel something is wrong?
Iām that guy.
But I love music
Donāt give a shit about making hobby friends
And it works for me and them.
That quote totally triggered me.
That is so simple and spot on.
Since you brought that, let me bring this.
Ever look in a mirror.
(of course you have)
Really look into your own eyes.
up close 2 inches from your nose close, and look into your own pupils.
Try it.
When I am doing bad inside, the eyes show me, they confirm or make me think about what is up with me.
When I do that and start sizing myself upā¦Iām doing goodā¦deeply.
Sound crazy?
Wellā¦the whole āhow can you even look at yourself in a mirrorā or āThe mirror donāt lieā
came from somewhere.