This is mostly why I’ve stuck with my Blon 03s… sound is on-point and they fit me well (with Spinfits/Sony tips and Yinyoo cables). 03s probably too bassy for ya, though.
I would recommend trying one of Moondrop’s Starfield/Aria models, but maybe not after the latest marketing fiasco.
Lot of impressions about Mele say they fit similar to Moondrop’s DD models, but are lighter (and cheaper). That sounds like gold to me, but I’m waiting for the new colorway to release (and more impressions/reviews as I’m finicky).
Final are great for being small. They just couldn’t stay in my ears.
The custom-style IEMs like Thieaudio are good too. The top part messes with the shape of my left ear, but otherwise very comfortable with the right tips.